My personal experience with COVID-19 began when my boyfriend, Marshall, called to tell me that he had tested positive for the virus.
Marshall works as a patient aide at Audubon Hospital and had been tested for the coronavirus after he had been experiencing a low-grade fever for a little under a week. When Audubon began to treat its first COVID patients, we decided to sleep in separate rooms to limit our exposure to each other because I have asthma and would be more vulnerable to the illness. So, staying apart was something we had gotten somewhat used to.
But with a positive test, isolating ourselves from each other became more urgent. How could he best self isolate during his 14 day quarantine? The only way to do that would be for one of us to leave our house.
My parents next door neighbor Janet, who is like a grandmother to me, has been away for the past few months. Perfect! Marshall could go there so we could completely self isolate.
It wasnt an easy decision by any means, but It was the best solution to a bad situation. My dad had been cooking just about every day while staying at home, so he would fix Marshall meals that my mom would take over and leave outside the back door for him. Dad would make me a plate of food as well, and some nights I would come over and eat with Marshall. He would stay inside the screened in porch, and I pulled up a chair in the driveway, so at least we could talk to each other even though I couldnt see him very well in there.
Along with our socially distanced dinners, we also found other ways to spend time together. We played some interesting games of badminton (we found out were both pretty terrible at it), and I talked to him in Janets backyard while he walked laps around her carport to get some fresh air. In the end, Marshall recovered, and we both are fine.
As for my time in quarantine at our house, it wasnt too terrible. I tried to keep myself as busy as possible by reading, practicing my violin and working out in our home gym and making masks.
What really got me through the quarantine was making masks for people. At first I just made black and white masks from fabric I already had, but then I decided I wanted to start tie-dyeing them. I started out making masks just for me, Marshall and my parents. It grew to making masks for my family members in Western Kentucky, my friends, my parents friends and eventually for their families as well. Ive also begun sending masks to my neighbor who is in Boston working as a crisis relief nurse. She and her coworkers are now using fabric face masks to preserve the life of their N95s. Being able to get masks to people who needed them really helped me get through the isolation.
My Quarantine Routine: 11ish Throughout my quarantine, this is when I usually wake up. Depending on how Im feeling, Ill sometimes take a breathing treatment and practice therapeutic techniques before getting out of bed because my anxiety has recently been worse when I first wake up. Once up, I make breakfast and sometimes Ill read or practice my violin.
1 p.m. I start working on masks for a list of people whove asked for one or more for their friends and family. Making them has been keeping me occupied: I usually work on them for four or five hours.
6 p.m. For dinner, I visit Marshall and eat my dads cooking. I also get to talk with my parents from the driveway while they stand behind the storm door.
8:30 p.m. Ive tried to keep up with my workout routine. We have a small garage we turned into a gym. I usually do my strength training for about an hour.
10:30 p.m. After, I have a snack and start working on masks again. Its become something therapeutic, and it feels good to help people. So far, Ive made and mailed around 90 masks. Ill usually work on masks for two or three hours at night.
12:30 a.m. This is when I watch Netflix and try to wind down for bed. Its been much harder to sleep. Ive always had vivid nightmares, but with the coronavirus pandemic, Ill sometimes have two or three a night. Its often around 3:30 or 4 a.m. before I fall asleep and stay asleep.
This article appears in May 27, 2020.