I stress out over every interview I do. Every single one. From the moment its confirmed until right before it happens. Its usually then that it all goes away. Its almost always fun, too, but, still, I stress. Theres no good reason either. In fact, youd think that after seven straight years of doing interviews, that Id feel like I would have it down by now. Its not a confidence thing, either. Not so much anyway. I guess there is always a sense of striking out, but I know the game well enough to know when to pivot, how to miss awkward obstacles, when digressions can work and when theyre going down a dead end road, so Im usually confident that I can navigate well enough to get to the finish line.
So, whats been on my mind lately, is why I put myself through the ringers multiple times a week? Honestly, Im surprised I dont have an ulcer over this little routine I have. I get all excited when I see that an artist is available to talk or alternately, I get a call saying they would like to be interviewed by me, a huge honor that I never take for granted. Its usually five minutes later that I start to worry. About the research, about the angle or themes that I want to shoot for, about the setup and execution. Really about anything and everything. And, if its a legendary artist, forget about it. Those are usually set up a week or more in advance, which means that Im a complete waste to anyone around me who needs me to focus on whatever were talking about.
To say that Ive been a wreck for the past week would be an understatement. A few weeks ago, I wrote about diving into the back catalog of Iggy Pop, and not long after that I get a call from his people asking if Id like to talk with not only him (which would have been monumental by itself), but also with his tag team partner on his latest project, Queens of the Stone Age frontman Josh Homme. Ive talked with Josh a few times before, but that doesnt take the pressure off. If anything, it only adds to it. Now, Ive got a guy whos vouching for me to a guy who basically invented a genre. My instant reply on the email was a resounding yes! The first thought in my own mind was gulp.
So, why do I still react this way? The somewhat silly answer I feel I can blame on my southern upbringing. Im a pleaser. I want to make sure everyone is comfortable. If I host a party, Ill spend the entire time working the room and making sure everyone is good. Going into an interview, I stress out about wasting their time. Its a complete head game that probably doesnt make sense, but on the other side, its also possibly what has afforded me to continue to be able to talk to artists that Ive long admired. I suppose what Im saying is that we all need something that continues to light the fire under us. An actor will tell you that they still get nervous before a show theyve done dozens of time, and its those nerves that keep them on their feet. So, maybe my own fear is what leads to doing the hours of extra research, the mapping and planning, and eventually the conversation.
Which brings us back to Iggy. How do you interview someone whos been asked it all before, in just about every way? The trick is to really want to know the answer yourself. I combed over his backstory and recent interviews, and every time something popped out that I found myself curious about, that went onto the page. And I stressed, and I sweated, and I worried, and the minute the mic went on, it was like nothing was ever wrong.
So whats the takeaway from this? Believe in yourself? Work hard? Stay thirsty, my friends? Something like that. Theres a line from the Stars song Hold On When You Get Love that I carry with me: Take the weakest thing in you, and then beat the bastards with it. Find ways to keep that fire lit in whatever youre doing and let the process work for you. Crave the answer. It feels really great when you get it.
Kyle Meredith is the music director of WFPK and host of the nationally syndicated The Speed of Sound. Hunting bears was never his strong point.