Ask Minda Honey: Heating Up His Ex-Wife’s Sofa

In a relationship or life jam? Lemme unstuck your life:

Q: I’m in a relationship with a man. He claims he loves me, but every time we argue, he runs to his ex-wife’s couch. Is this a relationship worth having?
—Lonely Loveseat

A: Lemme catch my readers up first: Y’all, I emailed L.L. back for a little more info. She’s 46, and he’s 10 years older. They’ve been dating for about a year and half.

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Offensive tweets: #ExpectBetterFromUofL

I read with alarm The Courier-Journal article Dec. 8 with the headline: “Cheerleaders cleared for Election Night tweets.” It said UofL had issued a statement saying that ‘those involved were not responsible for violations of the Student Code of Conduct,”... Read More ›

2017 Relationship Resolutions

Locals, write me with your dating, love and relationship questions at or follow me on Twitter at @MindaHoney Happy New Year, Lovers! Let’s get a few housekeeping things out of the way before we dive into this week’s topic.... Read More ›

How to rig an election

During the campaign, Donald Trump raised the specter of a rigged election as the only way the “establishment” could defeat him. Turns out there was indeed a rigged election, one that gave him the presidency. Over the past quarter century... Read More ›

Shelter from dude-bros?

Scientific curiosity compelled me to change my sexual orientation on OkCupid. It was originally set to “Bisexual,” because that seemed appropriate, although I did not have any attachment to the term, and I had never “come out” as bi. (Hi,... Read More ›